WHY SOME PEOPLE CHOOSE DARKNESS EVEN AFTER GOD THROWS THEM A LIFELINE
You know, the other day I was talking to Yeshua, and I asked Him something that has weighed on my spirit for years. I said, how can people be thrown a lifeline in this life and still choose darkness. How can they be given a divine appointment, a divine crossing of paths, a relationship that was meant to save them, redirect them, or heal them, and they still spit on it. They lie, they manipulate, they abuse, they use people, they destroy good things, and they walk right back into the same pit that Yeshua Himself was trying to pull them out of. It is one of the hardest things to watch, especially when your own heart is involved.
I have lived it more times than I care to admit. Before I was given this mantle, betrayal was a constant theme in my life. You try to help people, you try to love them, you try to guide them, and they will turn around and do the most unthinkable things. They will literally set the bridge on fire while you are still standing on it, and when the flames finally die down, you are left standing in ashes, rebuilding your future from whatever little remains. Meanwhile they walk away without a second thought, without an ounce of remorse, and in many cases without even realizing how evil they have become. Some are trapped by substances. Some are bound by the demonic. Some are simply weak souls who never learned how to fight. And some are just bad people who choose to do evil because darkness feels familiar to them.
But what stunned me the most was that even after I received this commission, even after the mantle rested on me, even when people could clearly see that I was different, that the hand of God was on my life, they still tried to run their games. They still tried to manipulate, still tried to deceive, still thought they could hide their intentions from a woman who stands in the presence of the King. That surprised me. But Yeshua told me why. He said that when a person is ruled by their demons, they no longer see clearly. They do not see you. They see opportunity. They see weakness where there is actually discernment. They see an open door when in reality the throne has already shut that door on their soul. They do not understand spiritual rank, and they do not understand consequence, not until it is too late.
Some people I cared for deeply. Some people I loved with everything in me. Some people I prayed for, stood for, cried for, and even with all of that, they still chose darkness. Yeshua told me that love does not force obedience. Love gives choice. Heaven offers a lifeline, but the human soul decides whether it wants to breathe or drown. When a person repeatedly chooses darkness over light, destruction over healing, addiction over deliverance, and sin over repentance, they forfeit their place in the kingdom by their own hand. It is not because they were not given a chance. It is because the chance frightened them. Darkness became comfortable. Chaos became predictable. Evil became home.
And here is the part nobody talks about. When you cut someone off after a betrayal, after they have lied and cheated and used you, when you finally walk away and choose peace, you will suddenly notice all the dysfunctional little satellites around them start orbiting around your life. People you have never met will view your stories. They will follow you, unfollow, re follow, watch you from fake accounts, and try to attach themselves to you spiritually. That is because when someone chooses darkness, they become a doorway for other dark things. Spirits of obsession, spirits of monitoring, spirits of jealousy, spirits of sabotage. They stir up old connections in hopes of pulling you backward. They try to drag your light back into the pit they refuse to climb out of. It is dysfunctional behavior birthed in a dysfunctional soul.
But here is the truth. When you walk with Yeshua, you cannot be light and align yourself with darkness. You cannot love someone out of hell if they are hellbent on living there. You can pray for them from a distance. You can hope they repent. You can wish them well on their journey. But sometimes the holiest act of love is cutting the cord. It does not mean you never cared for them. It does not mean you do not still feel the sting of what they did. It means you refuse to let their demons access the future that God has written for you.
People like that are weak. They are not fighters. They fall every time the enemy whispers. But me, and those like me, the ones who have survived fire after fire, the ones who rise out of ashes that were never our fault, we are fighters. Heaven forged us that way. And that is why the enemy hates us. That is why darkness sends counterfeits, betrayers, addicts, liars, manipulators, and soul leeches to attach themselves to us. Because it knows that once we fully step into our assignment, darkness loses ground.
So if you are reading this, and you have been betrayed, if you have watched someone you loved choose darkness after God Himself tried to save them, if you are tired of being stalked by the remnants of someone else’s dysfunction, hear me. You are not crazy. You are not cursed. You are not doing anything wrong. Your mantle exposes their demons. Your calling irritates their bondage. Your light convicts their darkness. Keep walking forward. Cut the cord if Heaven tells you to. Pray for them, but protect your peace. Not everyone wants to be saved, and not everyone belongs in your story.
Some people will spend their entire lives rolling in the slop like pigs, returning to the same destruction over and over. But you were never created for that. You were created to rise above it. And when Yeshua calls you higher, every demon that tried to destroy you will be forced to watch you walk into your destiny untouched.
Heavens 12th General ⚔️


Well written coco, you can’t give anymore then you already have and that’s all there is to it protect your mind and peace at all costs and wish them well, and love them from a distance amen! Beautifully said I admire your relationship with yeshua the beautiful king he couldn’t explained it any better and you wrote it just right! Thank you for always speaking fire and redirection where it is needed and truth. Love you bunches.
Great word! Amen! Thank you Yeshua and General Coco
Coco -This is just absolutely beautifully written ❤️ really hits home .. thank you beautiful soul ❤️
Wow Coco that gave me chicken skin… I’m so very sorry ppl have been so horrible, mean, disrespectful & down right ungoldy to you Especially after you trying to help them… I can’t say I know how you feel or what you’ve gone through, because thank God no one in my life has hurt me or betrayed me like that… Well, an ex husband cheated on me, but I had already filed for divorce from him due to his constant verbal abuse… I’m just blessed that the good Lord always put great ppl in my life… I had a few friends as a teen that were two faced, but those relationships never lasted long enough to matter… At 66 years old I have no regrets or complaints & I thank Yeshua for that completely… I do know allot of ppl who have lived very hard & at times unbearable lives & I always pray for them & their situations… I love you Coco & Yeshua with all my heart & am so happy I found you on Tictok
Thank you Coco and Yeshua. This words mean a lot to me at this time ❤️